long custody battle.. who should get the kids?

i have been friends with this couple for over 10 yrs. we went to school together. they got married at like 19 or so and have 3 kids. they are divorcing after 5 yrs of marriage. this is the 3rd time the father has left the family for another woman. the mother had one affair the 2nd time he left. he has been gone for almost a yr and now he decides he wants custody of 2 of the 3 kids. originally he had granted her full custody and made no contact with her or the kids for almost 3 months. and when she refused to let him see the kids(because the judge said she had the right to say no b/c there was no visitation order at the time.) he called child services claiming the mother was drinking and having sex in front of the kids. that turned out to be a lie. with that report he filed for custody but only of 2 kids. (??)
THE MOTHER- she has pretty much been on her own with the kids. she is unemployed now due to the father calling and showing up starting trouble and got her fired. she does recieve government benifits. has a vehicle but with no job cant afford it. failed one drug test in court for marijuana. (but i know her and it was the first time she ever did it and it bit her in the ass) she is not a drug user or a drinker she does smoke cigarettes. has a supportive family. most of her closer family members live out of state and i know she wants to move but doesnt think court will let her. some of her family have drug problems and stuff which is why she wants to move to be around the other side of her family..
THE FATHER- he is a heavy drinker. being a christian i want to help him sooo much but he doesnt want to be helped. he hasnt had a good work record. he keeps a job for only a few months then quits or gets fired. his girlfriend is a drug user marijuana and prescription pills. he loves to party he calls me every weekend wanting me come party but never go.. he has never owned a vehicle. niether have a car or job. his family are not very close. honestly i think they hate each other. everytime a family problem arises they blame him its sad. he smokes cigarettes as does his girlfriend.
the problem is that the father has vistation but never really sees the kids. maybe twice a month out of 8 visits. he wants overnight visits every other weekend. the kids are only 2 and 4. the older one has an anxiety problem and the younger one has a sleep disorder and a speech problem. the mother thinks the father left because of some of these problems. they had gone 2 yrs strong (after other problems) and then he leaves while she was out grocery shopping. he forgot the kids birthdays and never showed up for xmas. he refuses to pay his child support. she is very set in her ways when it comes to this she feels the kids are better off without him b/c he never really cared. he left before when the kids were newborns for other women..
i would like to hear some opinions thank you

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I read about this on the Google web site under the Personal finance listing.

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I am looking to improve my credit score as quickly as possible (hopefully within 3 months). My credit is 630, but I just want it higher to get a better mortgage rate from my lender. I am working to lower my credit card balances to 25% or less of the credit line and am paying off a personal loan I have in full. The only other thing showing on my credit is a closed Dell account with a balance of $1900 that I pay $56 monthly. Becasue the account is closed, if I pay this account down lower, will it increase my credit? What if I pay it off?

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I purchased a condo with a interest only 5/1 loan.I purchased a home at 100K appraised at 145K this April. I am thinking of renting out the condo but, I must refinace on the condo becuase I am due for the rate change by May 2010. The condo are appraising at 35% less than what I purchased for.

Am I eleigible for loan modification. My loans are from a Bank and I am not sure if they are backed by Fred/fen

Also, becuase I lived in the condo for more than 3 years before purchasing the home, am I eligible for Obama’s tax concessions

What are my best options to refinance and keep the condo….

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Sludge in the Garden
by Mike Krumboltz
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New homes are full of questions and possibilities. What color to paint the walls? How to arrange the furniture? What to plant in the garden? The Obama family must have asked a lot of those same questions when they moved into the White House. However, the first lady’s dreams of growing an organic vegetable garden have been dragged down by a previous resident that refuses to leave: sludge.

Various sources within the Buzz are reporting that Michelle Obama’s “organic” garden has been besieged by icky goo in the ground. As a result, the veggies aren’t quite what the first lady had in mind. According to Daily Finance, the National Park Service tested the soil in the vegetable patch and found “highly elevated levels of lead” due to sewage used as fertilizer.

So the question is: Who to blame? While dumping sewage into the ground sounds like a crime worthy of Mr. Burns from “The Simpsons,” the actual perpetrators were none other than the Clintons.

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Did the now Berkley U. CA. law professor ill advise the President of the US George Walker Bush that his powers were not to limited and/or mitigated by the US Constitution?

If Yoo did advise so, i.e., YES, then why is Yoo not in violation of the 10th Amendment which so guides us as follows (Ref Wikipedia): The Tenth Amendment, which makes explicit the idea that the federal government is limited only to the powers granted in the Constitution is generally recognized to be a truism. In United States v. Sprague (1931) the Supreme Court noted that the amendment “added nothing to the [Constitution] as originally ratified.”

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How is it a lawyer with such questionable legal character (does not understand the standing of the US Constitution in relation to our type of Federal Government) has been given a position at one of our best academic institutions. This does not speak well of the Berkley Law Department.

As a former US Military officer Yoo’s remarks about the Geneva Convention(s) shows him even to be ignorant of long standing international legal (military law) agreements. Sad.

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I finished my freshmen year at an in-state public University. I’m want to transfer in the spring to a nearly $40,000 private university to play Division 1 tennis. The coach is offering me a little bit of a scholarship and says he will be able to give me more in the following years, but its currently not nearly enough to help pay.
To add on top of this, my father got laid off at the beginning of last year and had to dip into his 401k which put him into a higher tax bracket, so we got even less financial aid then last year. I’ve done a stafford loan to help pay, which has been sufficient for my current university, but now I really need help.
I’ve tried for some scholarships that I qualify for, but many are just pot luck, or essay based.
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