Expecting first baby, marriage/finance help?

Written By: Home Financing on September 14, 2009 No Comment

Okay, its a long tale. but I really need someone elses thoughts on my situation.

I’ve been with my boyfriend six years, off and on. I’m about to turn 20 and hes 22, we’re expecting our first baby boy in January. At the time that we chose to have a child things were going excellent for us, We had our own house, jobs, cars etc. Well when I found out I was pregnant I had this thought to go back home to let my family be with me for my child’s birth. My father never really has liked my boyfriend, but when I told him I was pregnant he seemed extremely pleased. Now my dad is trying to tell me that we should get married and putting all this pressure on me and my boyfriend. I don’t want to QUESTION my boyfriend to marry me, we’ve talked about it before and he wants to wait till he has money to do it.. I’m not sure if its just an excuse cause hes not ready or what.. but, We’re currently staying with my dad and neither of us can find jobs, we’ve even tried Mcdonalds.. I was plotting on giving our baby my boyfriend’s last name and my dad is giving me hell saying not to..
I trust my boyfriend and I know he isn’t going to try to take my baby, I’m pleased not being married, if my boyfriend isn’t ready then he’ll question when he is.. But my question basically is. Is there anything my dad can do? I know I’m considered an adult, but I also knows laws are really messed up nowadays.. Also, are there any places that can help find jobs for future mother/fathers? Or a way to get money to help buy objects for the baby thats needed? I already have WIC.
I live in Mississippi, if that helps at all.

Thanks for reading
Making a huge mistake?
Thats a bit harsh. How am I making a mistake? I came here for help with my problems, not to be insulted.
We don’t buy drinks, nor smoke.. I’m pregnant, not stupid
How are we able to save money if theres no source of income?
I know hes ready because it was his choice. We’ve talked about marriage a couple years ago and it worried me, i wasn’t ready. so I reckon thats why hes worried to try again..
Seems like Lexi’s the only person not insulting me, Thanks Lexi. and yeah I’m not worried about being kicked out, I have my grandmother. I’m only at my dad’s so I can watch my sister for him while hes at work..
Last two answers really made me feel differently about Y!A. Thank you two very much for being supportive and not insulting me like the rest.

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